EOD Memorial: Need-to-know

If you ever have the opportunity to attend an EOD Memorial (held each year at Eglin AFB), here are the concise basic points on what you need to know. It is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity and, not unlike the Changing of the Guard at Arlington National Cemetery, is a very moving occasion steeped in symbolism and tradition.

I've complied a practical list of need-to-know information if you plan to attend. Some of this is based on my own personal experience from attending this year. Most of this information, comes from a good and very knowledgeable Army Sister! 


What to expect:

• Plan to arrive an hour-and-a-half before the Ceremony. Parking gets tricky and seating is very limited...those arriving late are welcome to stand in the common areas throughout the duration of the Ceremony. If you're stuck standing, just be aware and sensitive that you are not blocking the view of others. 
• Plan for the Ceremony to be at least an hour long.
• Prepare for loud noises. The Patriot Guard Riders are likely to be present and, as is military custom, three volleys will sound near the conclusion of the Ceremony.
• Plan to make arrangements for young children. This is an intense and solemn event; one that often tests the boundaries of children's patience... This year, there was childcare provided on location. I'm not certain if this is available every year, so you'll want to check the EOD Memorial Facebook page for information.
• Plan for unpredictable weather. It almost goes without saying that Florida, in early May, can be hot & humid (like this year) or unseasonably chilly. There's always a chance for a stray shower or even unexpected thunderstorm. This year we had a very warm hazy day with a few sprinkles!  

What to wear/bring:

• Dress as you would for a graduation commencement, or a daytime social event, or church service - a proper fitting dress or skirt suit (with a respectful hem length) is most appropriate. Workout, beach, pool attire is NOT appropriate. Neither is tight, skimpy clothing - this detracts from solemnity of the occasion and is wildly disrespectful. This is your chance to honor the families of those who made the Ultimate Sacrifice. Consider, also, the neckline - it might be an unwise choice to wear a one-shouldered sundress if your evening gown (for the Ball held later that same night) is strapless.   
• Comfortable flats or wedged heels - you will do lots of walking and, obviously, spiky heels don't fare so well in grass.
• Sunscreen - even though the official ceremony is held earlier during the day than in years past, the sun can be a brutal factor.
• Hat - a tasteful dressy hat is not only stylish but, more importantly, can also provide relief from the sun.
• Sunglasses - see a common trend yet? The sun can put a damper on your morning if you don't take proper precautions.
• Kleenex - you will be emotionally moved. It's OK. Just be prepared.
• Pocket-sized travel umbrella - it's Florida, after all, and the weather is often unpredictable.

I hope this is helpful! Let me know if you have a favorite tip - please share below or message me and I'll consider adding them to this list.